Cheater websites are just a click away from the premium pay sites that advertise Married Men for Married Men, to the free Craigslist personal ads, a man who wants to creep will find a willing, married partner in just a few keystrokes. The Internet has made it easier now than ever for marrieds to find each other and live out their fantasies. Then after about seven years, the high falls away and their gay identity starts emerging.” They fall in love with their wives, they have children, and they’re on a chemical, romantic high. This urge starts to reveal itself at the seven-year mark, Kort has said. When heterosexual men have fantasies to be with other men, it’s not an attraction to the male as much as it is an attraction to the sex act itself. That sexual need runs the show, not the person fulfilling the need, adds Joe Kort, a licensed sexologist out of Michigan. On many levels, he is more likely to see being “bi” primarily as a sexual need.” “Also, if a guy is bi, it is much less likely that he has taken the time to really immerse himself in the gay community or to have a deep exclusive emotional sexual relationship with a man. “These men get all the benefits of being married,” argues Yost.
